I have dedicated this website to my late first husband, Anton Nicholas Murray.

Born 21 August 1952 ~ Died 17 April 2007

​May He Rest in Peace

The beginning

We met on 14th October 1982,  on a Singapore Airlines Flight at Los Angeles, where I was a flight attendant on his flight bound for Tokyo.

He did what a lot of men did, chat me up. I refused his invitation to go out, as he was a smoker, giving him an excuse that I already had a date. He persevered. Being a seasoned traveller, he knew where the crew stayed and telephoned me on Sunday morning, just as I was leaving my hotel room to go to McDonald's for breakfast at Tokyo station. 

As I was hungry and wanted breakfast, I accepted his invitation to have breakfast at his hotel. And that's how it all began.